Wapenzi wanaoficha tabia wamefanikiwa kwa kiwango kikubwa kuteka mapezni ya watu, lakini baadaye wakishafanisha azma yao hujiachia na kuanza kuwatesa wenzao.
“Sikujua kabisa kama ana tabia hizi, ningetambua mapema kama ni mhuni nisingekubali kuoana naye.”
Uchunguzi unaonyesha kuwa wanandoa wengi mpaka sasa wanajuta kufunga ndoa na wapenzi wao na kwamba kama wangetambua tabia za wenza wao mapema wasingekubali kufunga ndoa.
Inawezekana hata wewe unayesoma makala haya unajuta kiasi cha kulalamikia mwenzako alivyobadilika tabia tofauti na mwanzo ulivyoanza kupendana naye. Hebu fuatilia dondoo hizi ili ujue namna ya kumtabua mpenzi anayekufichia makucha, ili usijiingize kwenye uhusiano usiokuwa sahihi.
MPE UHURU WA KUTOSHA
Watu wengi wanapoanzisha uhusiano huwabana sana wapenzi wao kwa kuwapekulia simu, kuwachunga watokapo na waingiapo, jambo ambalo huwafanya wahusika kujilinda sana wakiamini wanafuatiliwa.
Ndugu yangu usimbane mpenzi wako, mwache huru, atembee atakavyo na awasiliane na amtakaye, wewe kaa nyuma yake ukimchunguza bila mwenyewe kujua. “Mke/mume wangu hajali mambo haya” Hujali kumbe unamteka mwisho wa yote utamnasa.
MPE MAJUKUMU
Ukisha mchagua umpendaye, huwezi kutambua uwezo wake mpaka umpe majukumu ya kufanya. Kwa mfano mtume akalipie maji, umeme au mwagize asimamie jambo fulani.
Ukishafanya hivyo kaa kando mwangalie, anavyoiba chenji, anavyopunguza gharama bila kukushirikisha, lakini baadaye muulize, utashangaa alivyotibua mambo akidhani wewe si mtu wa kujali sana, kumbe ulikuwa umemtega na hatimaye umemnasa.
MUWEKE KWENYE WAKATI MGUMU
Njia nyingine ya kumnasa anayekufichia makucha ni kumweka katika wakati mgumu. Wanasema rafiki wa kweli hujulikana kwa dhiki. Tengeneza dhiki kwa makusudi na kuzitekeleza. Akikuambia naomba unitumie vocha mpenzi au ninunulie nguo mwambie sina pesa, halafu uone kama atakuwa na kiwango kile kile cha mapenzi. Wapo wanaume wengine wa pesa na mishahara ya wapenzi wao, ili kuwabaini ni kuwanyima wakati mwingine.
TUMIA WATU
Katika hali ya kawaida, majirani na marafiki wanawatambua zaidi wapenzi wetu kuliko jinsi tunavyowatambua sisi. Inawezekana kabisa mpenzi wako akawa mtakatifu unapokuwepo lakini ukiondoka anajiachia ile mbaya, hivyo ili kujua tabia zake waulize rafiki na jirani zako watakusaidia kumtabua mpenzi wako.
ANGALIA ANAVYOWATENDEA WENGINE
Wapenzi wengi wanapokuwa wamepata wapenzi hutazama wanavyotendewa wao na kudhani inatosha. Mtu muungwana huwatendea wengine mema. “Aa, mama naye kanichosha kila siku anataka pesa.”
Hebu sikia kauli hii, kama mtu analalamika kuchoshwa na mama yake itakuwaje kwako? Amka na kutambua kuwa anakufichia makucha na ipo siku atakubadilikia hata wewe na kukutesa. Amka usikubali kudanganywa na mpenzi mnafiki.
Hizi ndio sehemu 12 zinazompa Raha mwanamke wakati wa Tendo, Bonyeza Hapa chini== >
Ugandan socialite Zari is undeniably hot and Diamond Platnumz cannot be blamed for going kookoo for her, Besides her looks, she is also ambitious and rich. Born on 23rd of September 1980, Zari grew up in Jinja and after high school she moved Kampala where she performed karaoke in hang-outs. She later moved to London and acquired a diploma in cosmetology. She now lives in South Africa where she runs cosmetics shop while pursuing a career in music. She shared some of her never before seen photos from back in the day and she was still hot. Check her out:
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